Thursday, 17 September 2009

Ramadan Kareem!


The Holy Month of Ramadan, when Muslims believe Allah revealed his Holy law to the Prophet Muhammed, is drawing to a close.

During Ramadan, Muslims fast from sunrise to sunset. The fasting is designed to focus attention on Allah and to bring home the plight of the poor and hungry. The whole pace of the Kingdom changes. People start work later (to allow them to have another nap after taking their breakfast or "Suhoor" at about 4.30am) and finish earlier - around 2pm - because by then they are so exhausted from eating and drinking nothing all day in searing temperatures that the only thing they are fit for is bed.


The fast is broken after the "Maghrib" prayers at sunset. The meal taken at this time is called "Iftar", and traditionally consists of a few dates followed by a wholesome soup or stew. Later in the evening, usually around 9 or 10pm, people meet for a "Ghabga" or "gathering" and a more substantial meal. This is a chance to catch up with friends and family. Mosques offer Iftar in their courtyards, especially for the under-privileged and most companies and societies have some sort of ghabga during the month. Here I am with my friend, Jane, heading off to meet other friends for a ghabga in the Ramadan tent at the Novotel. The buffet was sumptuous with extensive hot and cold mezzahs, biryanis and shawarmas, all washed down with juice or soft drinks (the only downside).

During Ramadan no-one is allowed to serve food or drink during the day (so all the restuarants and coffee shops are closed) and anyone caught eating or drinking in public gets a stern warning from the police. Some poor bloke was arrested last week for lighting a cigarette in public. He claims he forgot it was Ramadan. I have resorted to crouching down in the car for furtive sips of water while out and about.

I find the whole fasting thing amazing. Bahrainis must have incredible willpower. This is not some poxy 2-day detox. This is a whole month. Not everyone fasts, of course. Children, the sick, the elderly, and pregnant or menstruating women are exempted. For others, it is a personal choice. I was visiting an Iraqi friend last week and she offered me a glass of vino at 3pm - which was welcome as we have run out of white wine and no more will be on sale until after Ramadan finishes. Neither she nor her family fast, she told me. Nor do many of her friends. She tried it once when she was in her teens. Never again.

Yet many do fast for the entire month. I overheard a Bahraini woman at the girls' gym class yesterday describing how she was suffering from the most debilitating headaches each day as she was so dehydrated. Although she did not drink anything, she did allow herself to crunch a paracetemol now and again to get through the day.

It's the labourers I really feel for. Stuck out in the heat of the day, they must work without food or drink. Despite not having to work during the two or three hottest hours, I don't know how more of them don't keel over with heatstroke or worse.

Shopping hours also change during Ramadan, with shops closed in the afternoon and then re-opening in the early evening until at least 11pm. Shopping malls are packed until well after midnight, with loads of activities for kids and music and entertainment. All to ensure that everyone has a happy Ramadan - or Ramadan Kareem!


6 comments:

  1. I don't know how it works in Bahrain, Kate, but many non-Moslem outdoor laborers working in Qatar and Kuwait have deep pockets, and a bottle of water in the pocket. They are allowed to hide behind walls, etc. and take a drink during the day, as long as they do it discreetly. Many also gladly accept one of those small juices if you offer them - I buy them by the crate and have never had one refused. Most love Mango or Mixed Fruit. :-)

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  2. Good for you! We actually have annual campaign here in Bahrain where volunteers (local and expat)distribute soft drinks and water donated by soft drink manufacturers to labourers - though obviously not during Ramadan!

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  3. I get headaches too from not eating during the day - some days are worse than others. Fasting isn't so bad if you're on the Saudi schedule of reversing your days and nights. That way you sleep away most of the day and don't feel the hunger pangs so much. Also during Ramadan, many hard laborers here seem to work all night instead of during the heat of the day. We can hear all kinds of hammering and noise all night long. Nice post, Kate!

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  4. Thanks, Susie and Eid Mubarak! It must be easier on the Saudi schedule, but still not easy. Enjoy the Eid celebrations.

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  5. Thanks - can't think where I got it!

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