Sizzling in the heat

It's official. I have just sweltered through the hottest June since records began in Bahrain 107 years ago. The average temperature was 35.2C and, on June 18th, the mercury rose to a blistering 45.8C.

It's difficult to comprehend how hot this really feels unless you are here - a bit like not being able to appreciate the speed of Andy Roddick's serve unless you had a seat on centre court.

To give you some idea, my June mornings went something like this:

4am - wake up sweltering despite the aircon and with the sun streaming through the gaps in the blackout curtains. Try to go back to sleep.

4.30am - Just nodding off again, when the Mullah has other ideas. I know the call to prayer is supposed to be a peaceful refrain but at that time of the morning it's just not.

5.00am - Garbage truck arrives loudly just outside bedroom window.

5.30am - Give up on sleep. Turn on shower to wait for water to run cold.

5.35am - Give up on cold water and take hot shower under cold tap.

6.30am - Collect paper from garden. Plastic wrapper is practically melting in the heat. Breakfast then do teeth in hot water - YUK!

7.45 am - Drop girls at school. Open door to car and walk into what can only be described as the feeling of a large industrial hairdryer on the highest heat setting blowing sand in your face.

8.00am - Get back to car which is now an ambient 48C. Sweat. Sweat some more.

8.30am - Back home. Take another warm shower under the cold tap and dream of snow.

Wish you were here?

School plays and prizegivings

It's that time of the year again - school reports, prize givings and end of term productions.

Wednesday morning saw the girls partaking in the school production "Be Our Guest" - a seemingly never-ending medley of songs each related to an ingredient for a soup. Olivia was a peperoni, Isabelle a chef. Ian couldn't make it (I'm beginning to think these meetings are just a convenient excuse), but I think the edited video replay was enough.

On Sunday morning I will be at the Gulf Hotel for the end of year prize-giving. Isabelle has beenawarded the Year 4 prize for French and the Year 4 prize for effort in English. And while her older sister wins for trying the most, unfortunately for Olivia there was no category for the being the most trying.....

Weekends and water parks

Last weekend we took a family outing to the Lost Paradise of Dilmun waterpark - or LPOD, to those in the know.

While the girls certainly loved the slides, boat rides and rafts, the most bizarre aspect of the whole day was how LPOD seemed to be Paradise Found to large swathes of local lads in their late teens/early twenties, who congregated there from mid-afternoon.

It was hard to understand the attraction. The rides, while fun, were hardly of the white knuckle variety normally favoured by young blokes, and of course they weren't there to ogle the nubile young local lasses in bikinis, as their religion forbids them from fraternising with the opposite sex and from uncovering in public. In fact the only female bodies on show belonged to expat mothers, like me, well past their prime. And they obviously weren't there for the booze.

All became clearer a bit later on, when the girls wanted a go in the wave pool. We could barely get in for the large groups of Arab youths. Suddenly a DJ at the other end of the pool started up some local pop music at full blast and the lads all began swaying, dancing and singing with each other.

Bizarre as it may seem, this was clearly their answer to a lads' night out and they were loving it. Each to their own..............

The road to Damascus

After our stay in Aleppo, we, like St Paul, were on the road to Damascus - quite literally. Syrian Airlines cancelled our internal flight and we had to drive.

We stayed in a beautifully restored Damascene house, or beit, in the old city. The houses are traditionally built around courtyards with a pool or fountain in the centre (to cool the air), plenty of plants and a shaded area for sitting.

The old city of Damascus is a bustling, vibrant place, with narrow streets and alleyways full of people. And everything is within walking distance - a real treat after Bahrain, where walking is a luxury. And there are some great restaurants serving excellent local food. I did not see one fast food outlet.

Damascus is home to the Great Umayyad Mosque, which according to the official blurb is "the Islamic most

famous mosque", although the Saudis may take issue with that. Non-Muslims are welcome but as a woman you have to dress appropriately, which entails a

visit to the "Putting on Special Clothes Room". You emerge from here clad in a grey-green hooded robe resembling something out of Star Wars. No matter, all the other female tourists look the same.

The mosque certainly provides a haven from the hustle and bustle outside, with cool floors andshaded spots where whole families gather and men snooze. The mosque's site used to be Cathedral of John the Baptist and his head is supposedly buried here. For a time, Muslims and Christians shared the site but the growth of the Muslim faith led to the then Caliph negotiating with the Christians for the church to be ceded and the mosque was constructed.

Damascus has a vast covered souk and streets full of shops selling curios and antiques - wonderful lamps, rugs and old tiles. Syria also has a thriving arts scene with a smattering of galleries and artists studios on the tourist routes.

And after a long day's walking, Kris and I headed over the road from our hotel to the hammam, or bath house. These are all over Damascus and originate from the days when houses had no bathrooms of their own. They are still very popular as a place to meet for a gossip and a wash and massage,with separate hours for men and women.

Behind the rug hanging over the door, we entered a square room with a fountain in the middle and raised benches strewn with rugs and cushions round the outside. Women of all ages and shapes lolled on these in various states of undress. We managed, with the help of sign language, to pay - hammam only. We didn't fancy the scrub and massage. You are given a little towel and expected to don some wooden clogs before negotiating the slippery entrance way to the baths. You soap yourself and sluice yourself with water from the stone basins, using the special hammam bowls (many people bring their own). We then just had a time for a steam before being ushered out as the men were due to arrive. A very communal experience!

Aleppo - Syria

Ian and I are just back from a four day trip to Syria. Despite all the bad press, it is an extremely friendly country - the people were incredibly warm and welcoming. And on the surface at least, it appears to be very tolerant. We saw local women wandering around in tight jeans and strappy tops - something unheard of in the Gulf. And best of all, we enjoyed a glass of wine in street cafes!

Our first stop was Aleppo, in the north of the country. Aleppo is Syria's second city and is famous for its citadel, its souk, its soap and its Agatha Christie connection - she wrote the first part of "Murder on the Orient Express" while staying at the city's Baron Hotel. It is also reputed to have the best food in the country.

The souk is a warren of covered alleyways, selling eveything from drinks to diamonds, carpets to coffee pots and clothes to calves' heads (yes really - vegetarians look away now. UK health and safety would have an apoplectic fit). It dates back hundreds of years and is still the place all Aleppans go to shop.

The Aleppan soap is made from olive oil and bay laurel and is 100% natural. Apparently it was used by several queens of the Middle East. And it's quite a process to make it, with the most expensive soap being aged in much the same way as cheese or wine. Some is stored for 8 years! We were lucky enough to buy some from one of the local factories, although the production season was over - it can only be made in the cooler months or it doesn't set properly.

And once you have finished your wanderings, copy the locals and visit this elaborately-dressed man for a refreshing cup of tea!

Birthdays present and future

Olivia turned 7 on May 28th. Her best present was an IPOD nano, which she wears constantly. I have downloaded all her favourite ABBA songs and she's perfecting some pretty mean dance moves when she thinks no-one is looking. Hopefully she will also soon get the hang of removing the earphones before she talks to you instead of bellowing at the top of her voice over Benny and Bjorn's lyrics.

Among her other gifts were some bangles. A great choice, as Olivia loves jewellery. The more sparkly and spangly, the better - which is good when you live in the Middle East, as nothing here is understated.

The other day she was rummaging through my jewellery box and found a pair of earrings she particularly liked.

"Mummy," she said, "I know what I want for my next birthday."

"You've only just had this one," I said.

"Yes, but I just wanted you to know. For my next birthday, I want my ears peeled and then I can wear your earrings too!"

"Peeled ears, eh? I'll see what we can do," I smiled.

Tales from the pool

Isabelle competed today in the St Christophers School Open Swimming Championships. She did 50m freestyle in 46 seconds, knocking over 2 seconds off her previous best time.

St Christophers is reputedly the best school on the island and is certainly the most sporty. The standard of swimming on show was quite extraordinary and the competition keen. 

Isabelle has her own special brand of competitiveness. When I asked her if she was pleased with her time and gaining second place in her heat, she replied that she was, but that the best thing was that she had not qualified for the final as she really couldn't be bothered to go. 

She's not got that killer Aussie competitive edge then..........